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THE DINNER PARTY

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Why don't you write about one of your great dinner parties for the next issue of the magazine?" Christina asked. "Well, ok," I replied, "but I'd rather write about something that is fresh in my mind, so I think that I will have a new great dinner party. Would you and Bob like to be the guests of honor?"

All right, way to go, Ruth Ann… you have done it again… why do you keep forgetting how much work it is to have company for dinner? Don't you remember that in the army, they say never, ever to volunteer?

The above dialogue, with varying ruminations, goes through my mind every time I decide to entertain. I love the sophistication and sparkle of a beautiful dinner party. It is my way of showering my friends with the special love and attention that they deserve. However, invariably, I feel overwhelmed at the prospect of pulling it all together.

Two people always come to mind on dinner party days when I am running around hither and yon. The first, and this will definitely date me, is Samantha, who was the star of the old television show Bewitched. I just loved that show. All Samantha had to do was twitch her nose and bingo, a great dinner would appear on the table. Another twitch and the house was suddenly immaculate, and she would be coiffed and dressed to perfection. I thought that was just great!

The other person is Martha Stewart. I must say that I find her somewhat irritating. First of all, she has a decidedly snooty demeanor. And secondly, and more relevant to my subject, she tries to convey the idea that entertaining is just loads of fun and easy as can be. She whips up the most complicated dishes and sets the most divinely beautiful table and never bothers to mention that these feats are not humanly possible unless you have loads of domestic help or have nothing else at all to do but entertain. Get real, Martha, stop giving other women a complex!

Anyway, enough of my grousing… it's time to knuckle down and start to plan a great dinner party. First and foremost, of course, is the menu. Party food should be richer and more extravagant than everyday food. Think about your guest list. Are the guests all familiar with macrobiotic food? Is there anyone who is on a restricted diet? If you happen to know that one of the guests has a particular liking for a certain dish, it's a nice gesture to make that dish.

My party was planned for Saturday night. On Thursday I did the grocery shopping. The first item on my menu was squash soup. At the produce section of Essene, I examined the different squash choices. There were three choices: kabocha, sweet mama, and buttercup. Hmmm… which of these would be the sweetest? I asked the produce man for advice. "Christina likes sweet mama the best," he said.

I chose the three largest sweet mama squash that they had. Bigger is definitely better when it comes to squash. The bigger they are, the sweeter they are. Next, I started eyeing the escarole. To my delight, it was just beautiful. My main course was to be deep-fried tempeh with escarole, sea palm, and olives. Deep-fried food is satisfying to men. My husband likes this dish. Hopefully, Mark, my daughter's new beau will enjoy it too. Mark has never had a macrobiotic dinner before. I want him to enjoy the meal and see that this type of food can be sensational.

There were to be eight guests, including myself and my husband Jeffrey; Christina and Bob, Sheryl Forte, the assistant editor of Christina Cooks, and her husband Jim, my daughter Amanda and the about-to-be converted Mark. By Friday night, the good china was washed and the silver was polished and standing at attention on the credenza. Everything was in shipshape order, and the smell of the fresh flowers permeated the house.

Saturday morning I wake up with a feeling of dread. "I wish that I were going to bed right now, instead of just getting up," I said moodily. "What's wrong, dear?" asked Jeffrey. "Oh, I am just not in the mood to cook for eight people tonight; why do I always get myself into these dinner parties?" "Shall we just take everyone out to a restaurant?" he suggested, being the real gem of a husband that he is. "No, that's the coward's way out; I'll cook, but first I'm going to get an adjustment from Tony Vincent."

Tony Vincent is not just a regular run-of-the-mill chiropractor; he's a healer, a born psychologist, and a true friend. "You seem a little uptight today; what's the problem, is something bothering you?" asked Tony. "Well, I'm cooking for eight tonight, Christina is coming, and I want everything to be delicious. I hope the meal is not a big flop," I replied.

Tony gave me his familiar warm laugh and, with a twinkle in his blue eyes, assured me that I was more than capable of performing the task at hand. "If you were cooking for eighty, then maybe you would have something to worry about," he said as he eased my body back into perfect balance.

Feeling rejuvenated and in control of my negative emotions, I returned home to begin the cooking. The way that you feel when you cook affects the energetic quality of the food, so it is important to clear your head and cook with a joyful heart. If you are in a good frame of mind when you prepare food, you will feel refreshed rather than tired from the process.

The afternoon of cooking went by with surprising ease, except for the few inevitable glitches. I got annoyed with the squash for being so hard to cut. Also, when I attempted to blend the almonds into flour, I was a bit overzealous and turned them into almond butter, so it made the blending of the dry ingredients a little tricky. The cauliflower dish, the carrot dish, and the lotus root are all very simple to prepare. Remember that I am not Martha Stewart!

But Saturday night was perfect. All the guests were in high spirits. I had set the stage, and now my guests could relax and have a good time. The table twinkled with the china and silver. The flowers spoke of love. Diana Kroll's singing "Let's Fall in Love" from her new CD lent an air of romance.

The conversation was lively, and in an impromptu moment, Sheryl, who has a beautiful voice, sang a song for us in Italian. Everyone enjoyed themselves, including Mark, who said that he had really liked the food. After everyone had left, I sat and reflected on the evening. It was a great dinner party. I promised myself that I won't do it again, until the next time.

Originally published in Christina Cooks Holiday 2000

THE MENU

Squash Soup
(serves 8)

1 1/2 large sweet mama, kabocha, or buttercup squash, peeled and cubed
3 medium onions, diced
parsley for garnish

Cook the onions with a pinch of salt in a small amount of water until the aroma of the onion disappears; add the peeled, cubed squash and more water; and cook for about 20-25 minutes, or until the squash is tender. Puree in a blender until smooth. Return the soup to the pot and add more salt if needed.
NOTE: the squash is a real chore to peel and cube, but the soup will be so worth effort. When pureeing the soup in the blender, be careful not to add too much of the soup liquid at one time, as you do not want the soup to be watery. I puree the squash and add the soup liquid, as needed, to get the right consistency.

TEMPEH WITH ESCAROLE, SEA PALM AND OLIVES

3 pkgs. tempeh
2 bunches escarole, washed and chopped
1 cp sea palm, rinsed and chopped
1 cp olives, pitted and chopped
safflower oil
shoyu
grain mustard
ginger

Cook the tempeh in a broth of shoyu and sliced ginger for 10 minutes. Remove and spread mustard on one side of the tempeh. Cube the tempeh and deep fry in the safflower oil unit it is golden brown. In a large pot put a small amount of water for steaming. Layer the tempeh on the bottom, add the escarole, olives, and sea palm. Season each layer with shoyu to taste. Steam for just a few minutes until the escarole is cooked.

BASMATI RICE WITH GARLIC AND ONION

3 cps. basmati rice
4 1/2 cps. water
3 cloves sliced garlic
1 sm. onion, finely chopped
olive oil for sauteing

Saute the garlic and onion. Add the washed rice and saute until well covered with the oil. Add three pinches of salt, the water, cover and cook for 45 minutes.

NOTE: It is nice to cook this dish in an iron skillet as it seems to give the rice a good taste. You can very lightly season with shoyu, for a little extra richness, if you like.

CARROTS WITH KUZU SAUCE

10 carrots
kuzu
shitake mushroom
kombu
parsley, for garnish

Boil the carrots until tender. In a saucepan, make a broth of water, a dried shitake mushroom, and a postage size piece of kombu. Cook this for about 20 minutes.
Mix one tsp. of kuzu per cup of water with a small amount of cold water. Add this to the broth and cook until it thickens.. If after about 10 minutes, it does not thicken, add a little more kuzu to a small amount of water and add to the mixture. Glaze the carrots with this and garnish with parsley.

CAULIFLOWER WITH MISO DRESSING

1 lg. cauliflower
1/3 tsp.barley or sweet brown rice miso
1 lg.spoon tahini
grated ginger
dash of rice vinegar
water

Wash the cauliflower very well, leaving it whole. If the green leaves which are on the base of the cauliflower are in good shape leave them on, as they will look very nice on the serving dish. If they are wilted or brown remove them. Steam the whole cauliflower in a large pot, with the lid on for about 25 minutes or until it is tender. During the last few minutes pour the miso dressing over the top.

MISO DRESSING

In a suribachi combine the tahini, miso, grated ginger and mix with a little water to create the desired consistency. The amount of miso, tahini and ginger can vary according to your taste. I kept adding and tasting until it tasted good!

PICKLED LOTUS ROOT
1lg. lotus root, sliced very thin
uneboshi vinegar
dash shoyu

Bring about 3 cps. of water to a boil, add enough uneboshi vinegar to make the water turn a pink color, add a dash of shoyu. Cook this for just a few minutes. Add the lotus root and cook for about 2 minutes. Remove the pan from the heat and allow the lotus root to pickle while you cook dinner.

RASPBERRY TORTE

1 cp. roasted almonds
1 cp. roasted oak flakes
1 1/2 cps. roasted whole-wheat pastry flour
pinch sea salt
1 tp. almond essence
1 tp. vanilla essence
1/2 cp corn oil
1/2 cp maple syrup or rice syrup
Jam

Place the almonds and oats on separate trays and roast in a 350 degree oven for ten or fifteen minutes. Blend the almonds to a flour in a blender, repeat with the oat flakes.
Mix the nut flour, flour, oat flour and salt together and make a well in the center. Whip the oil, syrup, vanilla and almond essence using a fork. Add the wet ingredients to the dry. Form a dough and press two thirds into a nine inch pie dish..Spread the jam over the top. Crumble the remaining dough over the top of the jam. Bake in the oven at 350 for fifteen to twenty minutes.

 

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